[Apologies] ... kinda screw up with the English Lang.

My apologies to all who are reading. I have been checking my post and it seem like I have a major problem with my Blogging. I will make an effort to have the post better written from here on.

Give me some comments from here. Cheers!
bOo!

[BGR] continues...

latest update.. apparently Kay's mum gave Jay's mum a call and they met up.
Kay's mum did not think that Jay and Kay would be there but they were hahahahaha.

Jay's mum is a well experience women that have seen much of the world with customer service as her priority. And she still feel that Kay's mum was a tyrant.....
in short...
Kay's mum said " you son don't marry my daughter lah..."
Jay's mum said " How can you demand all your wishes to be done?.."

in anyway, Kay has moved out of the house liaoz...
so, Jay is not STUCK liaoz.. hahahahaha.. but Kay is pretty nice lah...

Hope the best for them :D

Peace!
bOo!

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[BGR] ..... love will keep us alive???

There are many many problems that we face each day.. relationship problems are the most headaches. not like business where yes is yes and no is no... where love comes in it is all so complex.

Scenario:
- Boy meets girl
- together about 4 years
- Rich grandfather (gal's mother's father)
- Gal a bit "thousand jin siao jiar'
- Boy's family not so bad also.
- Boy and gal both well educated.
- Boy just graduated and have not found a job.

This friend of my <> not his real name. is one of the nice-est buy I have met. Do not club, do not smoke, do not drink.... can say zero vice. a Sunny-boy in general and quite good looking and have the bod to melt most girls and gays. hahahahaha. The Gal I not too sure <> pretty much psycho-ed by her mum to be a bitch but has since changed since the mum is a bit notorious. how is the mum notorious? well basically the mum just wants the gal to marry a RICH family. Nothing wrong with that since she wants her daughter to be well looked after. but just imagine the extreme.... The "physical" abuse to Jay is nothing new for the pass few year("evil eye") but the oral abuse is just one of those that can be listed in the Guinness records... even vulgarity has been heard behind the phone and this has not happened just once. forget about the Match making she does for Kay. And everyone in the Kay's family from aunties to grandparents from both side of the family likes the guy.

The thing is Kay is not exactly an angel but not the devil as well. There are things that she is brought up to "take". and just forgets about giving. But recently after a "break-up", Kay sort of found herself a mirror and have changed for the better....


After the "reunion" Jay and Kay seems to have hit it right. But to what extend I would not know. The point is, in most relationship it is not about compromising but more of acceptance and truly understanding of 2 individuI do not expect a person to change but more to know the situation and react to what is so deem appropriate... sound like the definition of the word compromise.. hahahaha..
anyway, taking into all this considerations I actually asked a few questions to Jay. (since I know Jay) :D He was in total devastation, I would too if I were in his shoes.

PAUSE... <> recently Jay just had one of those yearly catastrophe. Jay had injured his ankle in a mountain biking accident. So Kay had a gathering with her old school classmates, and Jay knows them. He is recovering but walking was bit painful. Kay of-course wanted Jay to come with her, thus the event begun. Kay drove over to Jay's place to pick him up, and of-course drive him back since he is in no condition to walk a distance of about 2~3 bus-stops from Kay's house. Anyway, in the car on the way to Jay's place after the gathering a phone call came. Kay was driving and thus Jay took the phone.... and here comes one of the most uncouth oral service one guy can ever get.here it goes...
- " you think my daughter is your driver is it?"
- " you don't marry my daughter lah.. you don't better"
- " why you got no job? you so useless"
- " my daughter supporting you is it?"

<>
well the quotes maybe a bit off but you get the message. this is probably one of the few occasions that the guy did not sent her home... and this was just after their "reunion".

In my eyes, I am not really bad mouthing gals with family that are wealthy but in general, I do not believe the poor and rich can ever mix. <> is a movie.
And I have time and time and some more time advice Jay on what he really wants in a relationship. Kay may have "changed" for the better but hey... is this just temp since she was the one at fault for that "break-up"? ...

<>
They broke up for the smallest thing..(very usual in a relationship lah) Guy always a proper gentlemen. Buy food for her, go buy for himself and "eat together"... usually he will ask her to east first since it will get cold. but this once.. the gal had already ate... the guy was starving so bought chicken rice and started eating.... but guy bought drinks for her first... so now the guy eat half way forget chilli.... how can eat chicken without chilli ???? guy asked gal. can get some chilli for me...

NO.!... and there is was... "break-up".. stupid? not really. since the guy has always been relatively understanding in her needs. And this is not just one incident and it is not as if they did not talk about it our before..... hahahaha.. still funny right?

<>

.. the point is now that Kay has "changed" for the better, no one really knows how much is the change. is she seeing it at the "correct" perspective and thus output such actions or is it just a guilt thingy? I would give it to her that she has finally see the "LIGHT".

Jay sits in his room and thinks. he thinks hard. Can this go ON?

From what I see he should just forget it. Why bother with the years of abuse to come? with a gal who is still not mature in mind enough?

But there is always the fairytale side in me that I want them to work out. I do hope Kay can see the real world from her own analysis of the world.

Both are not exactly young. 24 and 26.... I pointed out to Jay that 26 may sound young but taking into consideration that if he decides to go on ... he must do it all the way and get married. If not ... he better leave and let her have time to build-up another relationship. That is the responsibility a guy have to bear and see. The 30 mark for gals is always an issue.... *sigh*... many may think hec lah... the most marry later lor no issue lah. or even.. don’t marry lor... but that is beside the point.

I always believe if you open the door for the lady the first time, you better make sure you do it all the way... or just don't do it. I always believe in showing my TRUE self instead of hiding.....

hahahaha.. so much for now :D

[Singapore] ... bursting the bubble.

Well well well, after working for the last few years..( how many years?) cannot quite remember or quite frankly do not wish to rememeber. I notice a few things that have gotten me worried. most of use are REALLY in a bubble ... The Singapore bubble. We seem so fragile and we ARE. The economy has come to the point where the MNCs are now not wanting or have less regards to have their offices based here. more and more foreign talents are coming to take over... cheaper talents from less developed countries, and the local legislation is not doing much either.

sometimes i envy the PIONEERS of Singpaore, they build Singapore from scratch and made our country to such a nice and fabulous city..... NOT!..these PIONEERS are also the top management of today, and what are they doing? I am sure most of you are familiar with the term cost reduction. yes they take away all the perks that they have been enjoying for the last few decades to make them look good.... the parent company seeing .. "hey! singapore is improving and maintaining after so much" but HEY back! the whole nation is suffering.....and what happens to the cost of reduction to have MNC come in? they UP the GST by 1%...well if they really leave we are pretty much screwed????....

The government expect the graduates to have more kids, as our young population is decreasing .. but can we really afford it? well GRADUATES are like the ??best?? and we are the ??future?? yet i think most of them are like monkeys in the eyes of the MNcs and our countries. Promoting this and that.... knn if they pay me enough I do not mind have 5 kids.. but it just does not work out, the equation just does not work out. even for a non Grad ...i do not see myself providing enough for my kids like my father had.... this perception is very strong but i like kid too much to not have them. Come on.. show us some REAL support/s.

Inflation in Singapore is red-ly scary... 10 years ago and now the chicken rice has rasied its price by 30% or more. but the pay of a fresh grad or any other sector have increased much. or should i say have "decreased".... not really...IT HAS DECREASED.

Does anyone know how much is the the pay of a fresh grad to a MNC???? If I am not wrong, a BBA or Arts grad will get about from S$1500~S$1800 and an engineering grad with get about S$2000~S$2200. Let me know if this amount is too much. Yes, this is what a freash grad is worth. a factory worker with OT can easily get this amount without much problem. The "norm" person working for about 2~3 year will reach at age of 24~26 depending on male/female (because of the NS that male have to commit..2 years) Anyway, so by this age or maybe 2 more years, how much is their income????.... the more ridiculous pay increment of today is a real joke.... Jap companies will be from S$50~S$90.. YES no more percentage increase liaoz. I know many.. and i can say many many with 4~5 years of working in a company with a degree and getting less than S$3000. we can forget about bonuses.. as the trend for bonus is getting from low to ZERO...So you expect the graduates to have a family and have many kids with a total family income of S$5000±150. That seems to be the case isn't it... some may say "wow! that is a lot.... why don't the minister try to get his family going with this level of income... it is close to impossible for a family to survive without both parent working... a norm for many years? well, think again. We are now just barely surviving.

a very interesting morning session with mobileTV i had - usual ride to work. there was this CONSULTANT from US or UK.. pai seh cannot remember. but an ang moh lah. the channel news asia host was introducing this CONSULTANT which is a finiacial expert. And the question posted to him was how much does an average person need to save per month so that they are sure to be comfortable with supporting their children for higher education and also for their retirement.... the AMOUNT given was S$1000 each for each working adult.... meaning both parent have to save S$1000 each per month... the sudden shock can be seen in the host's reaction( his sudden pause of silence)*laugh* but the show continued with the subject being push away.... I mean probably what this CONSULTANT guy meant is to have a luxury life? but NO.. S$1000 was a min... I would believe this amount is relatively accurate, with reference to the inlfation rate that we are heading. ok now let me put this into perspective:
-S$1000 (saving)
-S$500~600 (daily expenses like meals and transport)
-S$300 (some insurance or something)
-S$500 (for parent)...personally i feel it is too little but hey.. this is just an estimate

So total is about S$2400.. hahahahaha what a joke... how many people in Singapore earns this amount (take home pay) ??? he would have to command a pay of S$3000 right? ok even if the S$300 insurance is put into the S$1000(savings) .. the person also have to earn a take home pay of S$2100... hahahahaha...I am sorry if I sound a bit bias with only the subjects of graduates but "graduates" are suppose to be just the level of people that is so well mentioned and is kinda like a benchmark lah...

so now... i seem to have forgotten some other stuff.... oh yah...babies... i forgot all about the babies....how much do we need to support them?

WELCOME TO THE REAL WORLD ANYWAY.....

stay tuned ... some BGR issues from my friend :D

the MRT... or rather public transportation in Singapore

...ok before i snooze something just pop up into my head.

the ever so irritating comuters of the Singapore public trqansport. let me warn you that all your actions are being seen and will re replicated to the younger generations... BEAR in MIND!

Singapore is the only MRT system to have markings for people to stay clear away from the doors for pasengers to alight before they board BUT this does not help at all. well the socail understand of most are .... i paid for the seat and i MUST grab the seat.. i grab means i win... wtf..????

the next time you see a person standing in the middle of the train door and not moving while trying to alight you know who you are looking facing me:D I normally give way in anyway i canbut for this stand.... i will not move and i will not be think twice and stop at the next stop if i have to just to prove my point.

it really diisgusting that we need markings on the floor to place outselves.actually i would suggest one way door so specific pr rather alternate doors on the train is for alighting or boarding only ... the top of the list on disgusting actions are when i see ang moh give up their seats for elderly or pregnant women but not locals... the worst is when you give up the seat and instead of the right person taking is a "quick witted" uncle or auntie snatches the seat.. and when confronted they give you a unhappy look of being no face which in the first place was brought upon them by their own actions.... really sad...

this reminds me of out little xiaxue... angry on the cad ride that cost her a few cents more. as a matter of fact i think the cab driver is a bit too kiasu but until you pay i suppose he has the right to continue the charging. how is he to know how long you are gonna take?

what if the aTM was out-of-service and he need to take you yo another aTM.. he have to restart the meter again? but i do agree with you on the restaurant part. but guys will just let it go because it is too much of a hassle to waste my energy on such imbeciles. why level yourself to their level?

ok lah i am really need to zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz................. heh heh heh.. until next time...

may the force be with you :D

bOo!

....correction

just heard the 1 track with lyrics:D

i think only 5~6 tracks is about 2min and3 tarack above 3mmins... i suppose the longer tracks are with vocals :D

....STOPPED the CD

... was not i the mood for THAT kind of belle and sebastian.. so change to the next- belle and sebastian..<> track 1 opening instrumental <> damn bloody great...They actually used 2 chinese faces of Chinese Opera (Wayang)... cool!.. btw belle and sebastian originated from Glasgow Scotland:D.....Orc-hai!... Da-nu!

hahahahahaha... sorry mates just hav got to do it.. i got a feeling this is gonna be a full instrumental cd :D...2nd track liaoz <>... of 3rd track starts with a dialogue :D... Surprisingly the dialogue sounded like yankee..:(... *laughs*

ok shold be quite confirm it is a full instrumental CD... really freaky...

.....bored

I am damn tired my eyes are like over used mothballs.... stingy , drying up, crossed and super tossed in a sand filled salad. but i just cannot go to sleep leh. so many stuff i feel like doing..like my super overdue website, some other Photoshoping and AutoCADing.. knn I wished I was studying again.. now no time sia..

lately there have been a lot of re-runs and everything seem to be so dry...(other than my eyes) .... PC hardware all waiting for the new standard to be out and re-runs after re-runs of SCV movies....

ok go for shower... Tat buay Han liaoz (TBH)

bought a couple of CDs quite a while ago but never really had a chance to listen to them... ok today.. i am gonna :D .............now playing belle ans sebastian <> :D the 1st track is so un bell and sebastian... too happy liaoz :(.. but i like them anyway :D

hahahah the first track is named: Step into my office, baby... mah chiam like a take-piss on Clinton and monica.. hahahahahaha... well i think the shower did some good help :D

i miss the boo radleys :(

[Crap] Taking a good crap

not sure about you guys but i must say ... eating well and then later having a good dumping in the toilet is damn shiok hahahahahaha.... the best is when you eat dman song and everything is dman relac but you feel like taking a dump but do not go until the last few moments... you find a good toilet.. slowly rest your ass ont he bowl and BANG!.. al comes out smooth.. knn damn kick sia hahahahahahaha..

The best if got s magazine to read hahahaha.. laggi shiok.

knn maybe i go take a crap my headache will go away..:D

[TROY]... heard it was crap

Just got a phone call from jeffrey, he was saying that the show was crap.
good build-up but a bloody lame ending with all character dieing. but i suppose this is how the stroy goes. but the thing is Romeo and Juliet had a dman bloody ending but it was still pretty good ....don't really fancy round-nosed, flat claire daines(spelling?)

yeah I got this bad habit of not spelling correctly and I am just too lazy to change it at times...... unitl it really bugs me.. then ok ok ... i go change it :D lucky i did not watch it... it was another one of those ass burning movies which lasted forever. Lord of the Rings PART1 one was one of them. They shot the entire film at one go.. why did they have to air it in so many movies. usually 1 book 1 movie i suppose..what ever happend to 1 story 1 book .... thus 1 movie.

crap if they here to show LOTR all 3 at a go I would have to bring an osim massage chair to GV.. hahahahaha.. maybe hire a few gals to do some full body massage better..it seems like a torture to watsh a proper movie now.

again...i must say ... MOVIES are really loosing its APPEAL

What is with blogs and livejournals?

Not quite know where to put my finger on.
this blog thing is pretty interesting and i suppose it will
also end up with my exploration with the IRC as well. but hey,
I'll try anything..:D

the pass few days have been bloody steaming... i am sure all air-con is overloaded and over-worked (sounds like a lot of people's job position)even the fan blows warm air. having a freaking headache at the moment and just do not feel like doing any work at the moment so here i am.

I think this blog thing is like Big brother, survivor, temptetion island...people just wanna watch such stuff. and in here there are more than feed one scene. this place is like a library. this goes to show Movies are not getting the appeal they used to give the people.... the people wants more!!!!!!

the everlasting needs and wants of men of wanting more.

ok lah.. later

Where have i been?

Ha!.... I finally got into this as well.
Never much of a IRCer or YahooMessenger or MSNer.. now this.
*laughs*.. those that know me will know who extacyl I am.
Well and why am I doing this? I really do not know.

after reading some famous (silver_eagle and xiaxue blog) blog i suppose.
hahahahaha.... Miss xiaaue is complaining no one does anything nice for her..
Well, to a certain extend I have not really read her blog but to many who
have and had, she is a real bitch ...*laughs* I suppose the internet brings
out the best in us... So to a certain extend xia xue this blog IS probably
together with many.. is for you as well...*super laughs*..

and also to floppy and Mr BG. basket you guys are really giving the word geek
a whole different meaning.... I think I am becoming one myself.

Swearing:-
gone were the days you get caned with a Fuck Off or KNNBLCB...it seem to be a norm nowadays... and not to swear seems abnormal now. I personally feel swearing is a god
damn cool thing. Singapore is just too bottled up and this is a kind of stress relief
for me?

I was contemplating to name this blog LCBlog or booest. Heeck lah.. its easier for the LCBs to find this :]

Gay scene in Singapore:-
After reading the blog on silver_eagle... I am truely worried.
Do they know what they are doing? I have a numebr of friends also gay
and some even friends that i have know since my childhood years.
Most took some time and or even many years of questioning themselves before
they give in to their TRUE self.... anyway, it is just scary now that the "scene"
is now so young... I just hope they know what they are doing.